Connecting With Men

On The Street

It was one of these beautiful early mornings when I felt moving away from my desk and just be outside.

I was wearing a summer dress, I was feeling so feminine and so light, so worryless.

I got in the car and a few minutes later I was walking outside, feeling like I was floating on the sidewalks.

The sun was touching my skin, my summer dress was so light and airy and I was feeling so laid back, smiling at everybody, being in the moment and the unexpected happened...Gentlemen were passing by and were saying "Bonjour" to me.

I was answering back "Bonjour" with a great smile. It felt so good, I felt seen, looked at.

For a one small instance I have connected with men just because they have sensed my vibe, my light, my welcoming. They saw me and I saw them.

Do you recall a moment like this?

Feeling relaxed, beautiful and comfortable with yourself? Calm and at peace with men? Allowing them to bask in your light even for a moment?

Would you like to experience moments like this during your day?

At The Grocery Store

It was a late afternoon at the grocery store. I felt relaxed, appreciating seeing all the colorful fruits and veggies the summer can offer.

It was so sunny and beautiful outside and somehow I was feeling the summer inside the grocery store as well. In fact I was so grateful.

I was walking slowly, taking my time looking at the shelves but smiling whenever somebody was passing by the ailes. I was present, aknowledging everybody passing by.

Two men were passing by, and one of them said "Hello" to me, I have answered back "Hello" and smiled. He was having a tatoo on his leg but he was limping a bit.

I am really turned off by tatoos, but when I saw him limping, I felt sorry for him, I have emphatized with him. He felt that. We crossed paths a few times in the store, he was always smiling at me I was always smiling at him. It felt so good.

When was the last time when you were a welcoming just by smiling, when you spread your positive vibe?

At The Pool

Swimming is my daily summer favourite escape at 11am.

I feel so energized, I already anticipate the touch of the fresh water all over my skin.

I feel my body enjoying the movement, my mind allowing the body to lead, just taking a well deserved break.

The sun rays warm my soul. They are welcoming me inside the water when I exhale and swim through them and are welcoming me outside the water everytime I inhale.

Once my laps complete, I get out the pool feeling so invigorated, happy, my body feels grateful for me taking care.

I am in a happy state and I draw attention.

This smiling man, smiles to me all the time during the first few days, later on he waves and later on he tells me "Vous etes tres belle Madame".

I like the compliment, I thank him, I take it graciously, it feels so good. He keeps smiling I keep smiling.

When was last time when you felt good within your body, without your endless thoughts, to do lists, when you appreciated a compliment fully as if it was a gift?

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